Please answer so me and my soul mate were having intercourse with a spermicidal condom(Trojan) she was a ?

Virgen when this happend and she only bled a little I did not ejaculate inside her (I'm very careful) but I'm sorta worried that precut might of slipped out threw the bottom or what if it had a little hole. After we finished I always check the condom by adding water and nothing dripped it was good but I'm worried about the bottom of the condom. The next day we did it again but this time I feel like I actually took get virginity away because she bled a lot I mean a lot I again took caution like I did the day before should I really worry ? Because I asked a few close bros of mine and they wanted to slap me because I sounded dumb please answer oh and this was I wana say 2-3 days after her period.